Thursday, January 5, 2012

Filipinas Looking for American Husbands - A Growing Trend in the Philippines

Some do it for pure love. Others, for a different experience and adventure while the rest consider it as the only way to get their feet off the mud of poverty. A great number of women in the Philippines - the Filipinas - now prefer to marry American husbands for the reasons stated above, although majority of women here say they want to live a life out of poverty and the only (and easy) way they can find is to marry a foreigner, especially Americans.

Filipinas dream of having a good life and a wonderful family. Others want to fly to the US and live there for good even if it means marrying and American 50 years older than her. While the reasons are varied, a Filipina, once married to an American, will always be a faithful and loving wife - one who will take care of her American husband for eternity.

It is a reality in the Philippines that most women in the country now prefer to marry a foreigner to get herself off poverty. Filipinas fear that once they marry a Filipino, their lives could become miserable when he turns into a drunkard, a wife beater, and a jobless a-hole. She doesn't care if she marries a foreigner way older than her as long as she is brought to America and stays there for good with her new family.

Check out the hundreds of dating websites online and you will surely find thousands of Filipina members who are looking for foreign husbands. Foreigners have to be very careful though because there are crazy Filipinas, and Filipinos, who post pictures of local actresses in their profile to entice foreigners and eventually make the foreigner a milking cow.

If you suspect that the picture of your chat mate or online friend is too pretty to be true, you should follow your instinct. Demand a government-issued ID or ask for a photo with you instructing a certain pose.

Saturday, August 22, 2009

Marrying a Filipina bride (Part II)

Philippine culture molds a closely knit family. So if you are planning to marry a Filipina wife, expect families and relatives to share your joys. In your first visit to her Philippine home, you will be met with smiling faces of relatives and families - brothers, sisters, nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles - especially if the Filipina has a big family.

Some expects something. A gift or something. But this is really not necessary.

That's part of the Philippine culture. It's as if you will be marrying the entire family. If you are not comfortable with the presence of family members and relatives in your first visit, talk to you Filipina friend about it so she won't be offended. But it would be very unethical for you not meet her parents and siblings on your first visit.

Marrying a Filipina bride

Filipinas (the female citizens of the Philippines) are known all over the world as hard working, loyal, trustworthy, loving, sweet, and caring. A Filipina wife always sees to it that her husband is well-taken cared of at home. She cooks meals (Filipinas are good cooks!), she washes the clothes (typical), and she makes sure that her man is happy with her all the time.

There are a lot of positive ways to describe a Filipina. That could probably explain why foreigners like you are looking forward to meeting a Filipina and marrying one. You sure will not regret in marrying a Filipina... much more if you know the different culture and traditions of the Philippines and the different traits of a Filipina.

There are, I should say honestly, Filipinas who are suckers for money. They befriend foreigners online for the sole purpose of asking for money to sustain her vices or for other reasons. She does not intend to have a long term relationship. She only wants money, money, money.

This blog aims to provide you with an overview of the different culture and tradition of the Philippines. The different courting styles that will surely sweep your Filipina "friend" off her feet. And some tips on HOW TO SPOT A LIAR. Don't be fooled by a few suckers. There are plenty of nice and sincere Filipinas online who are looking for long term relationship and even marriage with foreign guys.

Visit this blog often as we help you in your quest for that woman of your dream... the woman you'll spend the rest of your life with.